Why Women Cheat?

 Sometimes men are talking a different language to us.  The love they have for us doesn’t necessarily look, like how we think it should look.  

Instead of sending us flowers for example he may top up your phone for you. The flowers and the phone, both ‘mean’ the same thing.

Before you bring further destruction to your lives, look a little deeper at your relationship from his perspective.  You may be surprised to realise that he didn’t realise he was in fact doing anything wrong.  Try and understand his ‘language’ and explain to him yours.  Then look at meeting somewhere in the middle. Remember the following:

1. If you are thinking of cheating because he’s been unfaithful - you’re on a further route to destruction.
2. Finally, if some other bloke is piling it on thick – remember that most are like this at the beginning.  The Relationship really starts after the honeymoon period has ended.  When both parties have to extend themselves beyond what they really want to, that’s the bit they call compromise. That, is the real challenge.  So hey, just remember, you may find yourself in the same position with this new bloke a couple of years down the line.  If you’re thinking of leaving, be doing so for the right reason and not because some other guy is laying it on thick.

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